{"id":862735,"date":"2026-06-12T18:09:16","date_gmt":"2026-06-12T18:09:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/862735\/"},"modified":"2026-06-12T18:09:16","modified_gmt":"2026-06-12T18:09:16","slug":"emily-ratajkowski-lists-off-disturbed-men-she-has-dated-in-new-york-post-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/862735\/","title":{"rendered":"Emily Ratajkowski lists off ‘disturbed’ men she has dated in New York post-divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"

Emily Ratajkowski got candid about the men she has hooked up with since her 2022 divorce from Sebastian Bear-McClard<\/a>.<\/p>\n

In a raw essay for the Cut<\/a> published Friday, the model revealed she went on a hookup \u201cmania,\u201d writing that she \u201cdecided to f\u2013k my way into a new kind of woman.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ratajkowski explored with a flurry of different suitors, coming to the conclusion that \u201cmen raised in New York are uniquely disturbed characters from man hell.\u201d<\/p>\n

She detailed her time with a DJ who allegedly told her \u201cincest runs in\u201d his family. <\/p>\n

\u201cThere was Vegan Graffiti Artist with impeccable posture,\u201d Ratajkowski continued. \u201cChef who thought he might have chlamydia, Spanish Gen-Zer who couldn\u2019t stop sending me nudes, heavily self-medicated Son of a Billionaire with questionable politics, several Italians, and, of course, another DJ.\u201d<\/p>\n

Emily Ratajkowski (pictured here on Friday) revealed she went on a hookup \u201cmania\u201d following her divorce from Sebastian Bear-McClard. emrata\/Instagram<\/p>\n

In an essay for the Cut, the model said that while on a date with a DJ, he allegedly told her \u201cincest runs in\u201d his family. emrata\/Instagram<\/p>\n

She also nicknamed one mystery man \u201cElder Millennial\u201d and alleged he was \u201cobsessed with dental hygiene, psychedelics, and dirty talk.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ratajkowski insisted this was new territory for her.<\/p>\n

\u201cBefore my separation, I\u2019d never had a one-night stand. I\u2019d never slept with someone the same day I met them. In fact, I\u2019d only slept with eight people: four of whom had been live-in boyfriends, and one of whom was my male best friend in high school,\u201d she explained.<\/p>\n

Ratajkowski added that she learned \u201ctwo things\u201d while dating post-separation.<\/p>\n

The first was that men were \u201cturned on\u201d by the actress having a child \u2014 son Sly, now 5 \u2014 while the second was that the more Ratajkowski pushed men away, the more they needed her.<\/p>\n

The author, who was married to Bear-McClard (pictured here in 2020), added that there was also a chef \u201cwho thought he might have chlamydia.\u201d WireImage<\/p>\n

While single after the split, the activist (pictured here in 2025) took on the persona of a \u201csupervillain\u201d like Poison Ivy or Catwoman. emrata\/Instagram<\/p>\n

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Despite not being into Elder Millennial, the mom of one continued to see him.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019d seen a tweet about \u2018doing it for the plot\u2019 that I\u2019d begun to repeat a bit too often in those days, as if it were a mantra,\u201d she confessed. <\/p>\n

However, Ratajkowski \u201cwasn\u2019t getting off on the sex\u201d because she was \u201ctoo preoccupied\u201d with taking care of Sly.<\/p>\n

She decided to call it quits with her hookup era.<\/p>\n

Elsewhere in the essay, Ratajkowski opened up about the demise of her marriage<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Ratajkowski (pictured here on Friday) expressed she \u201cdecided to f\u2013k my way into a new kind of woman.\u201d emrata\/Instagram<\/p>\n

During her time hooking up with different men, the entrepreneur learned that guys weren\u2019t turned off by the fact she has a son, Sly (pictured here). emrata\/Instagram<\/p>\n

The entrepreneur revealed that she and Bear-McClard, 45, stopped having sex after their son was born.<\/p>\n

Ratajkowski explained that in the period after\u00a0welcoming Sly in March 2021<\/a>, her \u201cmarriage collapsed\u201d in a way that \u201cfelt both instant and excruciatingly slow.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cSix months after my son was born, my husband and I stopped having sex,\u201d the activist elaborated. \u201cLess than a year later, we separated.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ratajkowski said \u201cleaving\u201d her marriage was \u201ca hard choice that came with a lot of pain and at a great cost.\u201d<\/p>\n

The podcaster (pictured here with her ex in 2020) decided to end her hookup phase since she \u201cwasn\u2019t getting off on the sex\u201d because she was \u201ctoo preoccupied\u201d with being a mom. Getty Images for Fanatics<\/p>\n

The mom of one split from\u00a0the filmmaker in July 2022 before filing for divorce in September of that year. emrata\/Instagram<\/p>\n

Despite being a single mom changing the way people viewed her, the writer was finally able to see herself in a new light.<\/p>\n

\u201cI wasn\u2019t left; I left. I knew then that being able to leave, to say \u2018no,\u2019 was the only real superpower I\u2019d gained through divorce. I was brave. Really, actually brave,\u201d Ratajkowski mused.<\/p>\n

Page Six revealed\u00a0the podcaster split from<\/a>\u00a0Bear-McClard in July 2022 after nearly five years of marriage.<\/p>\n

An insider claimed the producer (pictured here with Ratajkowski in 2019) had cheated on his partner and \u201cwas a dog.\u201d GC Images<\/p>\n

In 2023, a\u00a0Variety expos\u00e9 accused Bear-McClard (pictured here with his ex and son in 2022) of sexual misconduct and inappropriate behavior with teenage girls. GC Images<\/p>\n

At the time, an insider claimed the filmmaker was allegedly unfaithful to Ratajkowski.<\/p>\n

\u201cHe\u2019s a serial cheater,\u201d the source said. \u201cIt\u2019s gross. He\u2019s a dog.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ratajkowski\u00a0filed for divorce<\/a> in September 2022. Just one year later, in 2023, Bear-McClard was\u00a0accused of sexual misconduct<\/a> and inappropriate behavior with teenage girls in a\u00a0Variety expos\u00e9<\/a>.<\/p>\n

The producer did not address the allegations.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Emily Ratajkowski got candid about the men she has hooked up with since her 2022 divorce from Sebastian…\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":862736,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_share_on_mastodon":"0"},"categories":[33],"tags":[185,29988,9477,569,570,571,172,37836,171,7964,67,132,68],"class_list":["post-862735","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-celebrities","tag-celebrities","tag-celebrity-breakups","tag-celebrity-children","tag-celebrity-couples","tag-celebrity-divorces","tag-celebrity-exes","tag-celebrity-news","tag-emily-ratajkowski","tag-entertainment","tag-sex-and-relationships","tag-united-states","tag-unitedstates","tag-us"],"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@us\/116738481762658091","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/862735","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=862735"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/862735\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/862736"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=862735"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=862735"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=862735"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}