{"id":926648,"date":"2026-07-11T00:25:16","date_gmt":"2026-07-11T00:25:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/926648\/"},"modified":"2026-07-11T00:25:16","modified_gmt":"2026-07-11T00:25:16","slug":"emily-ratajkowskis-viral-essay-on-sex-life-as-a-single-mom-scores-her-a-seven-figure-book-deal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/926648\/","title":{"rendered":"Emily Ratajkowski&#8217;s viral essay on sex life as a single mom scores her a seven-figure book deal"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img alt=\"Emily Ratajkowski and Sylvester Apollo Bear.\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"373\" height=\"560\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/https:\/\/media.zenfs.com\/en\/la_times_articles_853\/e49034d9b48d2ba2024543c1866806a8.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Emily Ratajkowski and her son Sylvester Apollo Bear attend the Loewe Paris Womenswear spring-summer 2025 show as part of Paris Fashion Week on Sept. 27, 2024. (Pascal Le Segretain \/ Getty Images for Loewe)<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><a data-ylk=\"slk:Emily Ratajkowski&#039;s;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;link&quot;,&quot;yLinkElementType&quot;:&quot;article_link&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.latimes.com\/entertainment-arts\/story\/2023-04-06\/emily-ratajkowski-custody-sebastian-bear-mcclard-divorce\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">Emily Ratajkowski&#8217;s<\/a> viral essay detailing her sex life as a single mom just landed her a seven-figure book deal.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">According to <a data-ylk=\"slk:Page Six,;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;link&quot;,&quot;yLinkElementType&quot;:&quot;article_link&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/pagesix.com\/2026\/07\/08\/hollywood\/emily-ratajkowski-sells-spicy-new-book-mother-f-ker\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">Page Six,<\/a> the model&#8217;s <a data-ylk=\"slk:essay in the Cut;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;link&quot;,&quot;yLinkElementType&quot;:&quot;article_link&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thecut.com\/article\/emily-ratajkowski-sex-single-mom-essay.html\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">essay in the Cut<\/a> had publishers champing at the bit in a 12-way bidding war that culminated in the hefty pay day. Editor Helen Rouner at Penguin Press \u2014 who also edited Lauren Christensen&#8217;s memoir &#8220;Firstborn&#8221; and Michael W. Clune&#8217;s novel &#8220;Pan&#8221; \u2014 reportedly landed the deal.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Penguin Press did not immediately respond to The Times&#8217; request for comment Friday.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Publishers Marketplace announced the forthcoming memoir, describing it as &#8220;an examination of modern female identity through the story of the author&#8217;s own efforts as a newly single mother in New York City to discover what really constitutes a good life for a woman.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The essay, which dropped a month ago and quickly broke the internet, drops the veil on EmRata&#8217;s sexual adventures (or maybe misadventures) since she and her former husband, Sebastian Bear-McClard, split in 2022.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><strong>Read more:<\/strong> <a data-ylk=\"slk:Column: No, Emily Ratajkowski won&#039;t just shut up and look pretty;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;link&quot;,&quot;yLinkElementType&quot;:&quot;article_link&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.latimes.com\/entertainment-arts\/story\/2023-04-06\/for-real-emily-ratajkowski-emrata?utm_source=yahoo&amp;utm_medium=promo_module&amp;utm_campaign=rss_feed\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">Column: No, Emily Ratajkowski won&#8217;t just shut up and look pretty<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;It was a violent transition into a new reality of screaming baby on my aching tit and ring on my swollen finger,&#8221; Ratajkowski writes of new motherhood. &#8220;And then, in a time period that felt both instant and excruciatingly slow, my marriage collapsed. Six months after my son was born, my husband and I stopped having sex. Less than a year later, we separated.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">In the missive, the model interrogates her sexuality \u2014 is she a Madonna or a whore? \u2014 while untangling bigger questions around gender, power and self-actualization. If Carrie Bradshaw wrote about &#8220;Sex and the City,&#8221; then Ratajkowski is writing about sex, the city and single motherhood. And naturally, her fleeting paramours have vague monikers: &#8220;Vegan Graffiti Artist,&#8221; &#8220;Spanish Gen-Zer&#8221; and &#8220;Son of a Billionaire.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;And then there was the Elder Millennial: obsessed with dental hygiene, psychedelics, and dirty talk,&#8221; she writes. &#8220;He had approached the subject coyly at first, like it was something he was kind of embarrassed about \u2014 the way a kid will test you to see if you&#8217;ll talk to them about their dorky obsession of the moment. Do you like Godzilla? What about Star Wars?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Would-be sleuths with Ratajkowski&#8217;s essay and a gossip rag handy will have their work cut out for them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">This will be Ratajkowski&#8217;s second book. The first, &#8220;My Body,&#8221; dropped in 2021 and was a bestselling collection of essays exploring gender, power dynamics, sexuality and the commodification of female beauty in the modeling and entertainment industries.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Ratajkowski&#8217;s foray into the spotlight came more than a decade ago when Robin Thicke&#8217;s controversial &#8220;<a data-ylk=\"slk:Blurred Lines;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;link&quot;,&quot;yLinkElementType&quot;:&quot;article_link&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.latimes.com\/entertainment\/music\/la-et-blurred-lines-legal-battle-sg-storygallery.html\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">Blurred Lines<\/a>&#8221; music video made the model an overnight star. She was cast in David Fincher&#8217;s adaptation of &#8220;Gone Girl,&#8221; which hit theaters the following year, and catapulted to top fashion runways \u2014 Marc Jacobs, Versace, Victoria&#8217;s Secret and Dolce &amp; Gabbana, to name a few. She she&#8217;s been romantically linked to Harry Styles, Eric Andre, Shaboozey, Brad Pitt and Pete Davidson, among others.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">In 2023, she moonlighted as the host of the &#8220;High Low With EmRata&#8221; podcast, where she interviewed sex workers, investigated ethical nonmonogamy and pondered the etymology of the word &#8220;toxic.&#8221; The same year, she told The Times that she was coming into herself post-divorce, &#8220;Being able to assert what I want \u2014 that feels like it just started: My life as a creator and not as a muse.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><a data-ylk=\"slk:Get notified when the biggest stories in Hollywood, culture and entertainment go live. Sign up for L.A. 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Times entertainment alerts.<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">This story originally appeared in <a data-ylk=\"slk:Los Angeles Times;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;link&quot;,&quot;yLinkElementType&quot;:&quot;article_link&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.latimes.com\/entertainment-arts\/story\/2026-07-10\/emily-ratajkowski-lands-seven-figures-for-book-on-sex-as-single-mom\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">Los Angeles Times<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Emily Ratajkowski and her son Sylvester Apollo Bear attend the Loewe Paris Womenswear spring-summer 2025 show as part&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":926649,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_share_on_mastodon":"0"},"categories":[33],"tags":[185,37836,171,129920,373813,213302,23016,373814,84728,373812,67,132,68],"class_list":["post-926648","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-celebrities","tag-celebrities","tag-emily-ratajkowski","tag-entertainment","tag-essay","tag-loewe-paris-womenswear","tag-page-six","tag-paris-fashion-week","tag-pascal-le-segretain","tag-penguin-press","tag-publishers-marketplace","tag-united-states","tag-unitedstates","tag-us"],"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@us\/116898506355853921","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/926648","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=926648"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/926648\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/926649"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=926648"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=926648"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=926648"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}