‘Situationships’. Unless they are happily accepted by both sides (maybe for the first few weeks) since when did one person treating another like shit become acceptable and ‘part of dating’.
I know a bit overlap is a thing that happens. But the idea of stringing someone along who you know wants a relationship just seems like utter shit.
Why put up with this? Isn’t it better to just be single?
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Why use these Apps as a man? You’ll easily find better partners offline. The difference is laughable.
The vast majority of this seems to be shaming men for not committing or for cheating, sometimes extending to sending their details to partners, family and employers.
Are we bringing back adultery laws (but just for men)?
Isn’t this tied to the notion that women on dating apps tend to swipe right at a much lower volume compared to men (something like 5-7% women swiping right vs 40% for men swiping right)?
If that happens to be the case then it suggests that women’s standards are a fair bit higher on dating apps which means that on average, the top few percentage of men are going to be selected by a lot of women.
If a guy happens to be in that top 5% and can get results consistently, there’s no real incentive to change any behavior (maybe even the opposite because what’s being done is clearly working).
Feeling threatened by artificial wombs and sex robots eh? Muahaha.
these apps aren’t designed for finding you a partner, sooner people realise it the better
90% of what gets treated as toxic dating behaviour by men, is just men treating dating the same way as women. doesnt take a long look at this sites girls dating/relationship advice to get an eyefull of pure nastiness thats only accepted due to internal crotch plumbing.
Well done ladies! When I was single I learned to stay far clear of dating apps. I couldn’t compete with the drug dealers and gym monsters on there, and I know sadly from my friends who are more ‘athletic’ than me that they pity the women on there, as they have no intention of a committed relationship with them – why would they, when they can get a different girl every day?
My friends are perfectly safe around women, if they hurt them it’s only through heartbreak. But I know of many guys that are genuine psychos. One guy I met on a stag-do was boasting about how he nearly killed a girl’s dog because it came into the room during a one-night-stand with a girl from Tinder. I hate to say it, but if you judge guys only by their looks, then you’re basically just opening yourself up to all the worst guys in the world and locking out most of the best guys. Call me a ‘nice guy’ all you want but the fact is, I am a nice guy and I’m not going to apologise for it, and my girlfriends would happily testify to it as well. And when ‘nice guy’ stops being an insult then maybe the world will be a bit better for everyone (except psycho dog killers).
Is there some problem I’ve not heard of where daring apps forcibly install themselves and force people to go on dates?
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‘Situationships’. Unless they are happily accepted by both sides (maybe for the first few weeks) since when did one person treating another like shit become acceptable and ‘part of dating’.
I know a bit overlap is a thing that happens. But the idea of stringing someone along who you know wants a relationship just seems like utter shit.
Why put up with this? Isn’t it better to just be single?
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Why use these Apps as a man? You’ll easily find better partners offline. The difference is laughable.
The vast majority of this seems to be shaming men for not committing or for cheating, sometimes extending to sending their details to partners, family and employers.
Are we bringing back adultery laws (but just for men)?
Isn’t this tied to the notion that women on dating apps tend to swipe right at a much lower volume compared to men (something like 5-7% women swiping right vs 40% for men swiping right)?
If that happens to be the case then it suggests that women’s standards are a fair bit higher on dating apps which means that on average, the top few percentage of men are going to be selected by a lot of women.
If a guy happens to be in that top 5% and can get results consistently, there’s no real incentive to change any behavior (maybe even the opposite because what’s being done is clearly working).
Feeling threatened by artificial wombs and sex robots eh? Muahaha.
these apps aren’t designed for finding you a partner, sooner people realise it the better
90% of what gets treated as toxic dating behaviour by men, is just men treating dating the same way as women. doesnt take a long look at this sites girls dating/relationship advice to get an eyefull of pure nastiness thats only accepted due to internal crotch plumbing.
Well done ladies! When I was single I learned to stay far clear of dating apps. I couldn’t compete with the drug dealers and gym monsters on there, and I know sadly from my friends who are more ‘athletic’ than me that they pity the women on there, as they have no intention of a committed relationship with them – why would they, when they can get a different girl every day?
My friends are perfectly safe around women, if they hurt them it’s only through heartbreak. But I know of many guys that are genuine psychos. One guy I met on a stag-do was boasting about how he nearly killed a girl’s dog because it came into the room during a one-night-stand with a girl from Tinder. I hate to say it, but if you judge guys only by their looks, then you’re basically just opening yourself up to all the worst guys in the world and locking out most of the best guys. Call me a ‘nice guy’ all you want but the fact is, I am a nice guy and I’m not going to apologise for it, and my girlfriends would happily testify to it as well. And when ‘nice guy’ stops being an insult then maybe the world will be a bit better for everyone (except psycho dog killers).
Is there some problem I’ve not heard of where daring apps forcibly install themselves and force people to go on dates?